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Welcome to my Blog! I am a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend. I am married to a wonderful man who supports me in all that I do - and all that I am passionate about. We have four children - the oldest two boys are in college and we are homeschooling our younger two, a boy age 9 and a girl age 5. I have always been interested in alternatives to traditional education and am so thrilled to be homeschooling my children. When not homeschooling, I love to knit and read as well as listen to country music (XM 59!). I am also a social worker and work part time for an excellent home care agency in pediatrics, maternal -child health and both adult and pediatric hospice. It is extremely rewarding work. I look forward to sharing our journey with you.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Collage Friday - on Monday

Hi again! I just remembered that I didn't share my Friday Collage on the Blog - it only went out on my twitter! So, here is my weekly (hopefully!) collage of our family life. Enjoy!

Hugs,
Susan

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Faith

Faith .....

Lately I have been thinking a lot about faith.  I have faith in my ability to educate my children in a unique way, one that is consistent with my family's values, our energy, our schedule, our personalities, our lifestyle.  We are blessed to have the ability to homeschool our children.  While challenging, it provides us with the backdrop to a very close knit family, one in which we really know each other, and enjoy each other.  We love spending time together and rarely "look" for time when we just don't want to be around each other.  We appreciate our kids in a way that if we were not with them on such a consistent basis, we would not know them in the same way.

Faith is also something that we practice, daily.  As life presents struggles of many kinds for us, it reminds us to have faith in our future, in our present, and have the confidence to move in a purposeful way through our lives.  It does take practice.  Doubt does enter our minds, confusion and wondering the why's of what we go through.  Knowing that there is a greater purpose, that there are no coincidences, and that everything happens just as it is supposed to - for a reason - enriches our understanding of our lives.

I have faith in my children's ability to make decisions for themselves that feel right to them.  I know that they will find their way in this world, and make the right choices for them.  I honor their choices and try to never make them feel that they cannot have the freedom to be who they are, no matter how old they are.  They are just as integral to us as we are to them, and we all learn from each other.

I trust when my kids are tired, when they are energetic, when they want to learn, when they want to play, when they want to be alone, and when they need me by their side.  I respect their feelings, just as they respect mine (most of the time!).

I raise my children with purpose - the purpose of doing good, being good, being just, being real, being kind, being present, being authentic.  Presence is essential in our everyday lives, for without being present, one cannot enjoy all the moments.

Take the time, be patient, trust your children, trust yourself.  There is no time like the present.  You cannot get today back.  Have faith that each day is a gift and happens just as it is supposed to.  We are each here for a bigger reason than we know.  Accept yourself for who you are, and treasure your children for who they are and whom they are becoming.